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March 19th, 2005

Cheer-leaders for Pain! @ 07:48 pm

 
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From:dominicvine
Date:March 24th, 2005 12:20 am (UTC)
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... it's pretty funny you say this
Bottom is easier, actually. But that doesn't make the top any less.

because there are people who just CANNOT bottom
why would you say it's easier?
maybe because you can lay back and relax
receive?

bottoming for me is a lot of work
topping is a lot of work
but it's more my natural flow
whereas bottoming wears me out
and blows me to peices...

i don't think either are better than the other
i just think we should do both

why?
more manifestoes later...

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From:lewdicrus
Date:March 24th, 2005 08:20 am (UTC)
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I think doing both gives us the best of both worlds, and keeps us balanced. But that's just me. Both are hard. Both are rewarding. I like the bottom because it lets me just let go and live in the moment. And trust, relax and receive, yes. Just as topping is a lot of work, and yet a nurturing kind of thing for me. Maybe that sounds strange, but it's a hard thing for me to put into words.

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