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July 29th, 2005

Psycho Bitch / Crack Head @ 08:37 pm

 
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From:uneasytruce
Date:July 31st, 2005 04:35 am (UTC)
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I'm sorry this happened to you. You did not deserve that treatment.

What happened had everything to do with you--because it happened to you. But, you did not cause it to happen. Because you were not the source of this aggression and hatred, because you did not cause it, you will never, never be able to figure it out. Please stop trying. Focus on the next.

When we fail to communicate, or fail to communicate fully, people are free to think whatever they want. Your acquaintances did not communicate fully what had happened to them, or what thought precipitated this whole morass of horseshit. You're free to think whatever you want, but please know that you were not the cause of the malfunction.

I know I have learned something from your post: If ever I am exceedingly furious with someone, or severely freaked out with them, I need to communicate very clearly what's going on, so the person will understand and not be harmed. Perhaps I could do this most clearly in a letter, if I think I cannot contain my rage in person. Failing that, I think I should just withdraw from the situation altogether. I believe Sheridan's unexplained absence would have been preferable, to what you lived through.

You're a fine person. Please remember that.

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